Surrender in Power

A 12-week online, intimate coaching program
for high-achieving Women who long for deeper connection.

You’ve spent your life being a force: high-functioning, executive-level, in-demand. You get things done, lead the charge, and carry others along the way. But when it comes to relationships, it’s a different story.

You are constantly in a relationship with people who can’t hold space for your power, let alone meet you in it, and it’s exhausting. You are holding up the world, feeling let down time and again.

You’re told you’re “too controlling,” but it’s not about control — it’s about safety. You don’t feel safe letting go because no one has proven they can catch you. You long for connection, but wonder if it’s even possible anymore.

If you're craving a space where you can finally let your guard down, “Surrender in Power” is designed for you.

Here’s what you can expect from this program:

  • Discover Your Deepest Desires: It’s time to get to know yourself beyond your achievements. You'll explore your needs—what you truly want from love and life—and learn to express them unapologetically. We’ll help you identify the ways you’ve been hiding, overcompensating, or holding back, so you can come home to yourself.

  • Master the Art of Surrender: Surrendering doesn’t mean losing control. In fact, it’s about having agency over when and how you let go. You’ll learn how to relax into your feminine, trusting yourself and others to create a new kind of strength—one that allows you to be swept away by love without fear. You’ll practice softening the muscles of ‘doing’ and exercising the art of ‘being.’

  • Shift Your Lens on Relationships: Understand why past relationships with men haven’t worked and how you can begin to change the dynamic. You’ll see the patterns in your interactions from a new perspective and learn how to invite the kind of partnership that can truly meet you.

  • Step into a Masculine-Held Space: This isn’t about venting or just being heard. It’s a container where you’ll move past complaint and begin to get clear on the core feelings driving your behavior. It’s a space for reflection, for honesty, and for real transformation.

It’s time to surrender in power.

Are you ready to stop holding the world on your shoulders and allow yourself to be held for once?

Join us in January 2025 for a powerful journey into trust, surrender, and the kind of love that meets you fully.

This program is for you if…

  • You’re Exhausted from ‘Doing’: Constantly being in action, decision-making, and leadership roles drains you, leaving little room for intimacy, softness, or play.

  • You Have Difficulty Trusting Others: You learned to rely solely on yourself and find it difficult to trust others. 

  • You Feel Emotionally Numb: You struggle to tap into your feelings, which can result in feeling numb or detached from both your partner and yourself.

  • You’re Over-functioning in Relationships: You take on too much in your relationships—emotionally, logistically, financially, even physically—which creates resentment and imbalance.

  • You Feel Loneliness Despite Success: You feel a sense of unfulfillment in your personal life because you aren’t emotionally met in relationships.

  • You Fear Appearing ‘Weak’: Vulnerability feels like a weakness, something you’ve avoided at all costs.

  • You Struggle to Relax: You struggle to relax and enjoy downtime, even in romantic relationships or vacations. 

  • You’re Confused Around Feminine/Masculine Balance: You feel caught between being strong and independent and wanting to experience softness, nurturing, and care from your partner. 

  • You Feel Disappointed in Your Partners: You’ve been with men who haven’t been able to meet your needs, leaving you frustrated and wondering if it’s even possible to find someone who can hold you emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

What Makes This Program Different?

This isn’t about strategies, formulas, or ideas.

It’s about heart.

You’re powerful in the world — now it’s time to feel that same power in love. This program is about stepping out of the race, pausing, and letting yourself be fully met without needing to earn it. You’ll rebuild your confidence, trust in men, and most importantly, in yourself.

The Program Includes:

Group Coaching Calls — 2 group calls per month, held on Tuesdays from 12-1:30pm PT (March 11 & 25, April 8 & 22, May 6 & 20)

Private Coaching Calls — 1 private coaching call per month (at a mutually convenient time)

Embodiment & Integration — Guided sessions with Ted including embodiment practices and breathwork

Dedicated Online Support — Access to ongoing online support from Ted throughout the program via Signal

Investment

$3,600 USD

*Application and interview are required for participation.

About Ted

In a world where female coaches often lead programs for men, there’s something powerful about a man leading a program for women. With 30 years of experience in intimacy work, marriage, and fatherhood, Ted has done the deep work to become a trustworthy masculine presence. His role is to hold space for your vulnerability, offering a non-judgmental, emotionally connected presence.

A unique male perspective:

Having a man’s insight into masculine and feminine dynamics allows for deep understanding. You’ll gain clarity on how your past relationships played out and where miscommunication might have happened, while healing from the wounds of those experiences.

You don’t have to do it all.

Allow yourself the space to relax, surrender, and be supported—without losing your power. Get started on a new kind of journey today.

FAQs

  • Surrender In Power is for any woman who is ready to shift how she relates with herself and others, ready to be met fully in relationship, and ready to step forward into a new way of doing life. The program is limited to four women.

  • A willingness to be vulnerable—to share your truths—the things that keep you up at night, the things that carry shame, the things that you want no one else to know.

    And, a generosity of practice — being a nonjudgmental YES to whatever your Sisters bring into the program.

  • Confidentiality is foundational in Surrender In Power. We set clear agreements around trust and respect from the start. By establishing boundaries and modeling vulnerability, I work to ensure each woman feels secure in sharing his truth. It’s this atmosphere of trust that makes deep, meaningful work possible.

  • Life happens and missing a session can occur. While we may record the teaching portions, the deeper, personal work will not be recorded to protect confidentiality. Missing a session means missing that particular experience, but you will still have the support of the group and the chance to continue your journey in future sessions.